Have you ever thought of bringing your partner with you to a strip club? Probably not. The majority of guys tend to believe that their partner – whether a girlfriend or wife – would not appreciate the gesture.
Certainly, a lot of women on the conservative side will not be glad to take part in your nightly escapades (more like they will not be happy to know that you are frequenting such places in the first place!), but there actually are certain women that might be okay with the idea.
Do not get surprised! Not every woman is the same after all. And no, we are not referring to lesbians (they would not be your partner, right?).
So how do you find out whether your partner would actually like to accompany you or not? Quite simple – ask her. Of course, do not ask her when you are in the car and on the way to the club, nor even a few hours before going out.
Make sure to probe the topic at a time when she is in a good mood. Be polite and do not pressure her; simply ask her opinion. If it is a favourable one, you can both agree on a date to visit an establishment (again, do not force her to go the very day itself!).
And now you are both at the bar, with strippers dancing at the main stage. What are you supposed to do now? If you asked yourself this question, then you are doing well enough.
Below are some general pointers on things you need to avoid – in order to avoid offending either your partner or the other girls at the club:
Do not ignore your partner and flirt with other girls – the most obvious thing and biggest mistake you could possibly make. You came with your partner, so be sensible enough of your behaviour.
Avoid flirting with the sexy lingerie waitresses that come up to you, and make sure to pay attention to your partner. If she feels uncomfortable, talk to her or leave the club.
But also do not ignore the other girls – you have come to a strip club after all! If you wanted to pay attention only to your partner, you would have stayed at home or gone elsewhere.
You can interact with the other girls, but make sure to respect the limits your partner expects of you (she might be more liberal or not, it depends on her!).
Do not get drunk – the biggest problem you can cause to your partner is to get wasted at the club. Not only will she be forced to deal with the aftermath at the strip club, but you will also humiliate yourself and just ruin your image.
My girl got inspired and had a strip pole for home ordered before we got
home, so yes, I am glad I invited her to the club , glad she went. Honestly, there is nobone hotter on a dance pole today than my girlfriend. (Now my wife)